I don't see how the Ref wins. I'm sure everything that was said happened. It was reasonable for the reporter to view the bad call, watch the interaction with the coach, over hear parts of the conversation and tweet accordingly. A good defense attorney should have it thrown out in about 10 minutes. I've coached at a few different levels and refs will respond that way. In an NBA game, the Refs will learn then need to try to get the call correct the first time so they don't have to do make-up calls.